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"My existence alone, I live it fully. I want to redo my life, but not at any price, "says Christelle, 35, a single mother divorced for two years. "I take advantage of the variants of love: the tenderness that I find with my family and my daughter, the complicity I share with my friends ..." At a time when marriage is no longer a must, where the life of a couple thinks more in CDD than in CDI and where society is more individualistic, we are all led to know periods of celibacy. Gone are the days when the Catherinettes were mocked and the old boys ridiculed. Today, singles and some do not hesitate to extol the merits of solo life. Without making it a life project. Singles flourished Among the solos, they are numerous to prove that it is possible to exist and to blossom out of the life of couple, which is often far from being a quiet river. Preferring, at least for a time, celibacy. For Léa, 41, living alone is a choice. "I will not get married, I saw too many...

Who are the singles? What is celibacy the name? How is it considered? How better to live it? While they are about 18 million in France, and singles are not always well seen. Being single and happy  The journalist Nadia Daam publishes How not to become a cat girl, a plea for solo life. She was the guest with the psychoanalyst Fabienne Kraemer, author of Solo no Solo , from Ali Rebeihi's program, Grand Bien Vous Faire. Together, they went around the question of life outside the couple. The single, necessarily an old cat girl? To (re) listen CULTURE How to become a happy single? In fact, celibacy covers an infinity of situations. They are 18 million singles in France. Among them, there are truly single people, but also those who have occasional partners, or a sustainable partner, but do not live with them. Some have sexual friendships ... And contrary to popular belief: singles are very surrounded. Studies show that when you are solo, you are more often involved in soci...

Getting used to being single is like moving to Denmark: everything seems completely foreign and it costs a bit of work and time to acclimatize. The first month you spend asking "Where am I? Who are these people with whom I am always walking?" And at night you will be constantly assaulted by the desire to go home. It will be a first month bathed in tears and rare cocktails, and you will hate it, but you will also love it. During those first thirty days, the protagonists will be tragedy and self-pity on the scale of the great productions of cinema, and you will feel entitled to all the downs that the body asks of you. But the time passes, the months follow each other and the moment will come when your friends tell you that it was already mild to hear you cry with your nostalgia stories. There will come a day when you tell what you think is a funny anecdote about your ex and someone leans towards you and whispers in your ear, "Hey, I know it's not easy, but it's ...

Now that there is a day for everything, today is the world's bachelor's day . As the psychologist says Mireia Cabero "that of singles is a target that is booming, and for brands has become a secto r very valuable." But what happens when someone returns to singleness without wanting to? What are the most common fears and attitudes? Well, it depends, of course. Basically of the circumstances in which that new singleness has taken place . "The emotional backpack changes according to the vital moment in which we find ourselves, and the relationship and the type of relationship we had with our previous partner, " explains the sexologist Isabel Moreno . In the case of a break, "among the new singles , the loneliness has bad press if you are the one that they have left, but not if you are the one that has broken and you give yourself to the crazy life , "says Cabero. Event Today marks the World Day of the Bachelor, a target that is booming and has b...

1. You are everything you need Learn to do things on your own. Ask yourself what kind of things you like to do alone. Go to the movies? To museums? To a restaurant? Personally, I love going to the movies and art exhibitions on my own. I often reject friends' invitations to these two activities because I really enjoy being alone. 2. Do not keep a relationship that does not add value to your life Look around. Do you have unhappy friends, with or without children? I do. I must say that MOST of my friends are involved in unhappy relationships. It's sad, but it's hard to change when you feel comfortable. In fact, there is nothing harder than abandoning your comfort zone, including a comfortable relationship. But ehhh! That you only live once and that also means that you must aim at the highest, or at least the best possible person you can imagine. Do not stay in a relationship that does not bring out the best in you, that pushes you to be the best version of yourself, tha...

1. They exercise more Singles spend more time keeping fit and practicing sports than those who stay together, married or divorced. This is indicated by a study conducted in the United States by the Department of Statistics on a sample of more than 13,000 people aged between 18 and 64 years. The benefits of being single, according to science. The benefits of being single, according to science. 2. Better health According to a study conducted by the University of Texas at Austin, United States, to 1.2 million Americans in the framework of the National Health Interview Survey between 1972 and 2003 and published in 2008, people that they had never married, enjoyed greater well-being and health.  What is the anti-obesity vaccine? Look also What is the anti-obesity vaccine? However, another investigation, elaborated in 2006 by the experts Zhenmei Zhang and Mark D. Hayward under the name 'Gender, the Marital Life Course, and Cardiovascular Disease in Late Midlife', publi...

1. They exercise more Singles spend more time keeping fit and practicing sports than those who stay together, married or divorced. This is indicated by a study conducted in the United States by the Department of Statistics on a sample of more than 13,000 people aged between 18 and 64 years. The benefits of being single, according to science. The benefits of being single, according to science. 2. Better health According to a study conducted by the University of Texas at Austin, United States, to 1.2 million Americans in the framework of the National Health Interview Survey between 1972 and 2003 and published in 2008, people that they had never married, enjoyed greater well-being and health.  What is the anti-obesity vaccine? Look also What is the anti-obesity vaccine? However, another investigation, elaborated in 2006 by the experts Zhenmei Zhang and Mark D. Hayward under the name 'Gender, the Marital Life Course, and Cardiovascular Disease in Late Midlife', publi...

Many people say they are jealous of my life. I also find myself fortunate, at least luckier than those who have no relatives to love, no longer home to return. But is it hard to have happiness? The answer is no if you appreciate your own life. As a woman, whether single, married, in an open relationship with someone, or divorced, you must know these things. 1. Don't try to lose weight, don't try to force yourself to wait or actively send someone a message. Don't waste tears, don't be sad for a person. This life is yours, let everything happen naturally, your life will be safe and happy. 2. Being a woman must learn to live for herself, love her a little. If you want to eat and eat, you want to buy a new dress to buy all the money in your pocket and buy it again. You do not need to live too economically, if sad, bring your backpack to go where you want. Because, when you are married, you will not be able to accomplish those things. 3. No tolerance, forgiveness is...

1. Everything is subject to change. And they will change. I - the author of the article does not need to know how long you have been single, decades or just days. We easily criticize ourselves for not finding our perfect half. Don't let yourself be bribed by silly false beliefs like: " Getting married at age 40 is even harder than kidnapping aliens ." Remember that everything is possible . You just need to get rid of the usual way of thinking and believe it. 2. Set high standards. Don't just date anyone because you're afraid of loneliness. Of course there are many people who choose to " settle down " with someone just because they hate loneliness. If it's you, why do you hate such loneliness? Don't you love yourself? You should love loneliness because you are an interesting person. You must believe that those who do not want you are idiots, are not worthy of you. Don't just date anyone because you're afraid of loneliness 3. Use...

AP  Single usually quite tiring, especially if you have to go through the bad days and spent a lot of time for finding yourself a special person. Change yourself and your life to make this year a great year for you. Stop daydreaming and start living with reality Get out more, watch and experience more. You can easily let your future into someone's imagination, assuming that when you find it, you may be disillusioned. To break those illusions, the only person who can do it is anyone else. Your happiness should never depend on others. Your happiness must be in your hands. Instead of waiting for someone to accompany you, be realistic. Know your love for yourself The quickest way to kill loneliness is to accept that you are single. It sounds easy but happy even if no one is around, it is the core value you should hold. It is about time you enjoy life alone for yourself. Go to the movies, go for a massage or go for an afternoon stroll, read a book at the cafe ... Actually...

Taking advantage of the opportunity to save money, take time to take care of yourself ... will make your life happy even if you live alone.  A happy husband with his wife once made him run for the first time According to Inspiringtip 's experts , a happy life depends entirely on you. Thus, for celibacy to make sense, remember these things clearly: Learn to love yourself  Don't forget you deserve to be loved, not only by those around you, but also by yourself. Single is an opportunity to focus more on yourself, so please pamper yourself, respect your own weaknesses and always encourage and protect yourself. Looking at life positively  Instead of just paying attention to the negative side of life, you should aim for good values ??and enjoy it. When your spirit is positive, good things, good people will be attracted to you very naturally. Enlist the opportunity to save money  When you are single, you do not have to spend money on family and children. If y...

Even if you are 50, you can become a single if you live alone.  There is a young old man and an old young man. The reason is that we have managed well the chung, ki, and deity that are the basis of human survival. All three are important, so none of them can obscure.  However, 'Jung' meaning 'body' and 'god', which means spirit, play a role to support '' ki ''. Therefore, if you are weak in golf, no matter how hard you are, you can not support the body and you can not concentrate. You will never be a single golfer.  Sometimes, in the 50s, there is a person who can not be a single golfer.  But he is not strong, but it is not really a star.  If so, it is necessary to judge the level of my level in my 50s.  The method is surprisingly simple.  If you put your wife on the boat at night and it is too heavy to push your breath away, you can look at the bottom. If you can hold it for 10 minutes, you can look at the single.  Th...

Every golfer has a variety of reasons and purposes for starting golf. Whatever the start, if you continue to enjoy golf, you will soon become a 'single golfer'. There are many people who think that 'single', which is the hope and goal of all golfers, is considered like a high wall or a big mountain and is a far away word. But the single is not a wall that can not be surpassed, a mountain not to look at! If you understand exactly what 'Single' is and get the information you need and get the appropriate lesson, you can reach a 'single golfer' sooner than you think! To become a single golfer, I will learn about the golf story that should not be forgotten. Technique is not to think of technique! If you look at the professional players' game, you can see the pre-shot routine and the weighting of the ball to the point where the ball bounces first during the practice stroke process. This is a great short game player when you see where you are concentra...