7 Tips for Being Single and Happy

1. You are everything you need

Learn to do things on your own. Ask yourself what kind of things you like to do alone. Go to the movies? To museums? To a restaurant? Personally, I love going to the movies and art exhibitions on my own. I often reject friends' invitations to these two activities because I really enjoy being alone.

2. Do not keep a relationship that does not add value to your life

Look around. Do you have unhappy friends, with or without children? I do. I must say that MOST of my friends are involved in unhappy relationships. It's sad, but it's hard to change when you feel comfortable. In fact, there is nothing harder than abandoning your comfort zone, including a comfortable relationship. But ehhh! That you only live once and that also means that you must aim at the highest, or at least the best possible person you can imagine. Do not stay in a relationship that does not bring out the best in you, that pushes you to be the best version of yourself, that adds value to your life. If it's a fight, a constant fight, a complicated relationship, leave the ship.

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3. Host a big party or treat yourself to an appointment

Hello Tinder, Grinder, Pretty and the rest. Yes, the time is short and the applications are good. If you are not ready to have an appointment, go for a run, go to the cinema or invite single friends to your house to spend the night. Read a book. Just make yourself happy.

4. Travel sun @

At the beginning it is strange. But once you get used to it, it gives you a freedom that you often do not have. You go with your own schedule and you have the opportunity to spend all the time you want doing what you want to do. And, on top of that, you are in a new place. Explore! Create an adventure!

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5. You are not sun @

Even if your ex cheated on you, you divorced, your relationship broke down: your family and your friends will always be there. While you are single, it encourages and fosters those relationships, because, as is logical, you will have less time once you fall in love again.

6. You are already a whole, you do not need to be completed

I am very sorry for people who still believe that they need to find someone to feel complete. It's an old story, chic @ s and it's fake. We are all born as complete, incredible and magnificent human beings and you do not lack the other half of the orange. There is only, perhaps, another good orange to bite. Learn how to feel good about yourself. If you can not bear to be alone with yourself, why should you expect someone else to be with you?

7. Each new relationship is better than the previous one

Well, I do not have scientific results to prove this, but it is true based on my personal experiences in this of love. If I look back, with my ex and my stories, I see improvements one after the other. It is as if the quality of my relationships was directly proportional to time. Is that because I'm getting smarter? Maybe. More patient? Without a doubt. Do I have less expectations? As well. But I think the element that improves my relationships is the fact that I AM getting better and better.

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The truth, chic @ s, is that love is incredible, but it is not everything in life. Do not be afraid to be single. In fact, being alone is quite surprising (I should not write this because my best friends read this blog and probably ask me tomorrow ... ups!). But, seriously, take time while you are single to look deep inside yourself, project the person you want to become and work hard to improve the parts you need to soften.