19 what a 50-year-old woman handed down, remember to live peacefully

Many people say they are jealous of my life. I also find myself fortunate, at least luckier than those who have no relatives to love, no longer home to return. But is it hard to have happiness? The answer is no if you appreciate your own life.

As a woman, whether single, married, in an open relationship with someone, or divorced, you must know these things.

1. Don't try to lose weight, don't try to force yourself to wait or actively send someone a message. Don't waste tears, don't be sad for a person. This life is yours, let everything happen naturally, your life will be safe and happy.

2. Being a woman must learn to live for herself, love her a little. If you want to eat and eat, you want to buy a new dress to buy all the money in your pocket and buy it again. You do not need to live too economically, if sad, bring your backpack to go where you want. Because, when you are married, you will not be able to accomplish those things.

3. No tolerance, forgiveness is best not to force yourself to do it. Women sometimes have to be selfish a bit to make themselves more comfortable. Because forgiveness has never been the best way to solve problems.

4. Don't believe anyone's promises or swear words. Because someday, they will try to leave you, the promises follow that person disappear. No one has enough patience and good memory to make promises in the past. As a woman, you should listen for fun, don't believe it to be true.

5. Certainly at least once you thought: "Will we be forever?" Don't worry, every person born has a person dedicated to him or herself, not just a charm yet, a time suitable. The important thing is how long it takes you to wait or search for that person.

Maybe you have experienced many love before but have not yet come together. Don't worry, when the right person at the right time, everything will be full. So don't flinch, don't force yourself to love someone when you're too lonely. Enjoy this single life, do the things you like, eat the foods you love and go where you want.

6. My husband / boyfriend is good, but adultery is a throw-away thing. Don't because his words like "You're stupid, you're so drunk" that you make yourself blind.

7. As a woman, don't be too angry or dreamy. As long as you know enough, life will probably be full. Don't force too much.

8. There are absolute types of men who should never love: Mocking, lying, tongue-mouthing, changing, or sulking, or judging, or pouting and especially men who are feminine.

9. Do not be afraid of loneliness but love a person. Women may not have a husband, but once chosen, choose a good person who deserves your longing.

10. This life, being kind to others will help your life be better and more interesting. But the important thing is whether your kindness is right, does that person deserve your kindness?

11. Women's high heels are meant to make women confident, so step on your heels and walk confidently. Life with high-heeled shoes is not simply a matter of respect, but rather a way to overcome non-public opinion. If you've bravely walked away, don't care about what you want to talk about, courage to do it, be brave and accept it - even if it's wrong, at least it's wrong in pride.

12. Don't arbitrarily cry in front of strangers, because not everyone can sympathize, anyone can understand. Do not arbitrarily show others that you are weak, can cry here, because all around you are family.

But out of this half, it is absolutely not to cry, do not arbitrarily display your weak face to others, because not everyone can feel their pain and sympathy.

13. Men do not respect women who do not appreciate themselves.

14. The promise is only to hear, not to believe. Men who spoke ten-part sweetly believed in only five parts, keeping themselves five suspicious, at least if there was disappointment, still holding five parts to stand up instead of trusting the whole and collapsing in the whole battle.

15. Don't give up when you want to try, don't end if you don't give up. Love until you can, tired, stop, bored. But you have to stop at the time when you are really exhausted, do not stop at your own will and then look back and then look back and complain why you did not try once more in the past.

16. A wise woman, does not mean that in love will be rational. When a woman's rational love lies under her butt and sits up, she cannot see.

17. There is no reason to end it as reasonable, your lover will not be easy to leave you, who gives you many reasons to leave your life, meaning they don't love you .

18. Men like to conquer, they pay much attention to what they don't have and are often mindless with what they already own.

19. Love and letting go are two certain phrases that must be included in your dictionary. Falling in love with a bad person, leave, do not question, use it. Keeping a person unworthy, even more miserable.