13 helpful tips for single life to become more interesting

1. Everything is subject to change. And they will change.

I - the author of the article does not need to know how long you have been single, decades or just days. We easily criticize ourselves for not finding our perfect half. Don't let yourself be bribed by silly false beliefs like: " Getting married at age 40 is even harder than kidnapping aliens ." Remember that everything is possible . You just need to get rid of the usual way of thinking and believe it.

2. Set high standards. Don't just date anyone because you're afraid of loneliness.

Of course there are many people who choose to " settle down " with someone just because they hate loneliness. If it's you, why do you hate such loneliness? Don't you love yourself? You should love loneliness because you are an interesting person. You must believe that those who do not want you are idiots, are not worthy of you.

Don't just date anyone because you're afraid of loneliness

3. Use this time to learn yourself

Usually people will choose to be with others as an escape to escape from themselves. If you are with others, you will focus on them, not yourself . But do you know how good you are? Being single is a valuable time to truly learn and learn to love yourself. So take the time to learn about yourself. Explore new things. Try to develop yourself.

4. Don't follow anyone

Do not run after anyone. Don't even think about it! If you follow them, it means they don't want you. And if they don't want you, you shouldn't expect them ( article 2 ).

As Maya Angelou  said, " When people tell you about themselves, believe it for the first time ." If someone is showing you that they don't want to date you, trust them. Let go and continue on. That is their loss, not you.

Try to make yourself look like the person you want to date

5. Try to make yourself look like the person you want to date

Jerry McGuire is wrong. Don't look for someone to " perfect " you. If you need someone to improve yourself, you are not enough to start dating. Please read article 2 and number 3 again until you understand it.



You want others to think: " Wow! That person is dating me! I am the luckiest person in the world! "  And that person is the person you need to find.

6. Learn to love yourself

You are wonderful! You are interesting! If you don't believe it, you're wrong. Everyone of us can be perfect in their own way. The problem is that many people - single people - don't believe it.

It's great to spend a Saturday night alone with good wine and a good movie. When you enjoy it, tell yourself what my mother used to say: "I wonder what the farmer is doing? ". In other words, those " farmers " are all others - because you are enjoying your time alone and you don't need anyone else.

Learn to love yourself

7. There are still good people out there

Do not rush to believe things like " good people have couples in pairs ". That's bullshit! Aren't you still single? If you're still single and ready to date, not all good people have a couple. You just need to get rid of your own stupid thoughts and don't believe what the public says. Because there are so many other singles in the world for you to find half of them.

8. Not sure to create opportunities

One of the things that singles don't like is that they can't predict the future. Or control it. They thought, " Will I be alone forever?" Am I going to be an old lady? Where to meet more people? ".

Many people do not like these uncertainties and questions, but uncertainty offers a lot of opportunities. You can choose delight! And how good it is. You simply need to believe that.

Focus on what you have

9. Focus on what you have; instead of things you don't have

That's the number 1 theorem of the Law of Gravity. If you don't know about it, find out more. When only focusing on the negative side of being single, you are " emitting " negative pulses towards others and they will " collect " it.

Focus on your great career, friends, health, vehicles, delicious meals - up to you. When focusing only on the good, the pulses you emit will turn positive. Other people will also gain it and want to be with you more.

10. Focus on the things that make you happy

Do you like running? Join a jogging group! Do you love reading? Join a book club! Want to have fun with friends? Just do it! The more busy you are, the less you will focus on the negative aspects of celibacy ( truths don't have any negative aspects - only you think they're negative ). Always be busy and happy. Who knows when you will meet someone then?

Focus on the things that make you happy

11. Love yourself the way you want

If you have been cruel to your ex, check it out! If you're cruel to yourself, stop now! Love yourself! Respect and be kind to yourself. If you want a good relationship and a person who is kind to you, you need to do it with yourself first.

12. When feeling lonely, spend more time with others

Maybe you are feeling bored or lonely because there has been no appointment for a long time. So start " giving ". Volunteer in a home for homeless or abused women. Helping others always makes you feel better. The more people you help, the better you feel yourself. Moreover, it will also help you pay less attention to what you " don't have ".

Please be patient

13. Be patient

Perfection takes time ! Rome was not built in a day and the Great Pyramid was even built for a century. So if you want greatness, you need to wait. Don't just choose anything.

Be sure to choose a lover that they really want . You must be a pair of couples. Otherwise you will find yourself to be single again. Decide what you want and be confident that you will find " him " too.