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For years, singles were mocked, vilified, called "losers", losers of the great game of love and chance. Hollywood has achieved the feat of producing three Bridget Jones on this simple idea. Most research on unattached individuals is carried out under the prism of marriage, the life of a couple, giving loneliness an image of abnormality. In reality, being alone forever is not so bad. Frustrated by the lack of studies about the development of the single, Dr. Bella DePaulo, psychologist and author of Singled Out , began investigating celibacy a decade ago. Her latest book suggests that embracing loneliness would promote psychological and social development, unlike married people - paradoxically more disposed to isolation. I contacted Dr. DePaulo, also a researcher and professor at the University of California at Santa Barbara , to question her about the company 's obsession with the couple. VICE: Why are we so afraid of being alone? Dr. Bella DePaulo: Everyone wants ...

HELP, I'M SINGLE! Whether you are divorced, long-time single, separated, single parents , widowed or widowed, or in perpetual quest for perfect love, we all go through periods of celibacy in our lives. Moreover, the only way of evolution in society for a woman has long been marriage. And that remains firmly anchored in our memories and in our culture! Fortunately, celibacy is no longer only perceived as a ball that you drags, on the contrary! Like Hollywood, and her single, way of working, being single becomes a way of life! So notice to desperate singles, to those who think that they will never succeed in "redoing" their life - as if it had stopped after a breakup - I will prove to you that we can quite be single and swim in happiness ! Attention, I'm not saying that we do not have the right to suffer from a break or a lack of relationships. On the contrary, sadness is a healthy emotion that needs to express itself and to be lived. You have the right to take...