THE HAPPINESS OF BEING SINGLE

HELP, I'M SINGLE!

Whether you are divorced, long-time single, separated, single parents , widowed or widowed, or in perpetual quest for perfect love, we all go through periods of celibacy in our lives. Moreover, the only way of evolution in society for a woman has long been marriage. And that remains firmly anchored in our memories and in our culture! Fortunately, celibacy is no longer only perceived as a ball that you drags, on the contrary!

Like Hollywood, and her single, way of working, being single becomes a way of life!

So notice to desperate singles, to those who think that they will never succeed in "redoing" their life - as if it had stopped after a breakup - I will prove to you that we can quite be single and swim in happiness !

Attention, I'm not saying that we do not have the right to suffer from a break or a lack of relationships. On the contrary, sadness is a healthy emotion that needs to express itself and to be lived. You have the right to take a retreat after a breakup, whether it is suffered or chosen. Believe me, I speak from experience!

Gradually, however, we can find many benefits to celibates. Here are some tips for flourishing as a single !

LEAVE COMMENTS FROM OTHERS

That's it, you're single. Following a break or by choice. It is a fact that you can assume, and yet, even if it is, you will be entitled to the opinion of everyone on your situation!

I'm sure you can see what I'm talking about! Your family, your friends, your colleagues, a vague knowledge ... everyone has comments to make to you. You are, however, gifted with the highest moral and physical qualities, and then, well, it's time to fit your age. Or again, the biological clock turns, past 30 years, it is difficult to find the person with whom to found a family. Have you ever noticed that you never ask, "How come you are in a relationship?" Married? widow? This would seem very incorrect, and yet, we allow ourselves with singles!

Yes, it's anything.

The best thing to do with these comments is not to let them impact you . You are a big girl, or a big boy, and being single is clearly not a drama!

Better to be single than unhappy.

Your grandmother has probably already told you (yes, yes, the same who you are to fuck once and for all): better to be alone than badly accompanied.

In fact, she is absolutely right. Celibacy is not a contagious disease . Society tends to show us the couple as a norm. However, taking time for yourself, letting time and meetings, all this is important not to engage in unhealthy relationships . Celibacy makes it possible to learn to know oneself and to love oneself before entering into relationship. We can also establish what is expected of the couple, and finally find the right person !

Not only do we save so much suffering, but we also avoid entering a vicious circle where we chained failures that will achieve our self- esteem .

Keep in mind that the goal of the couple is to grow both partners. If your couple ends, it is simply that you do not bring each other more enrichment to each other, and it is time for you to meet another person who will help you to evolve and vice versa!

CELIBACY IS A MOMENT FOR YOU

Celibacy is not synonymous with confinement and withdrawal , on the contrary! In "single", I like to hear the words freedom, autonomy, independence! You do not have to bend to someone else's pace, to his needs.

Being single means being free to do anything you want, especially everything you can not do or do more as a couple! What are you dreaming of? From a backpack road trip to remote lands? Go on a solo trip ! To move and change your life? Make your cartons! To discover a new artistic activity , sports, cultural? Get started!

A period of celibacy is ideal to go out, make new encounters without making headaches, but also to work on his personal or professional projects .

How to be happy when you are single

CELIBACY AT THE MEETING OF ONESELF
Great, you are single. So you have plenty of time to focus on yourself and your well-being. For that, you can start by learning to love yourself , to regain your self-confidence . To avoid spoiling, it will help you build calmer and healthier relationships in the future. By loving and respecting yourself, you will find the people who do you good.

To learn to love oneself is to learn to know oneself , to understand who one is. With many qualities of resources at your disposal, but certainly some brakes that you put in the wheels.

Here are some tips to put in place to go to meet yourself:

Meditate a little each day, you can take inspiration from my program to learn to meditate in 10 days
Make a list of your gifts, your talents, but also values that are important to you
Take stock of your desires. Maybe this is the right time to start a project without depending on someone, being completely free of his schedule!
Accept not to be perfect.e, your faults are part of you, welcome them with benevolence
Feel free to step out of your comfort zone , you can find all my tips in this article
Give yourself time for yourself , play sports, exhibit, or take care of your body with healthy eating and pampering
Practice gratitude . Saying thank you brings real power, that of recognition. Enjoy everything you have and what life brings you.
And when you feel ready or ready to partner, take the time to list your priorities and what you really expect from the couple. Do not forget, you are the only person with whom you will spend your whole life!